The photos above represent incredibly different parts of my life. In the one on the left, I was doing all the “right” things, and on the right, I was defying societal norms and building the life I wanted. Which one do I look happier in???

When I got married, I convinced myself of so many lies. I told myself my husband made me better (even though he was gaslighting me), that he wasn't abusive (he was) , that I could help him (I made his feelings my responsibility), and so many more.

This is why I CELEBRATE my divorce because it wasn't just about new beginnings, it was because I started being honest with myself.

Patriarchy creates a codependence that stops you from trusting yourself. It asks you to seek your own worth through someone else's ideas of what that means for you. This keeps you stuck in cycles of people pleasing, fixing, and exhaustion while you wonder “Who am I?”

 

Being honest with yourself will help you to:

1. Stop spinning out about if someone likes you because you're worried if you said something “wrong.”
2. Feel unbothered about not being perceived as “good."
3. Know what you want because you're attuned to YOUR feelings and needs instead of everyone else's.
4. Know you're enough beyond societal standards of how that “should” look.
5. Start that thing you've been putting off because you actually BELIEVE you can do it (and you stop convincing yourself otherwise)!

This free workshop will give you tools to pull off the tentacles of patriarchy so you can stop codependency from disconnecting you from your inner knowing (because you had to make yourself small in order to survive).